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3 tips to stop bullying? and what’s wrong with the world?

Muthafuckas that don’t like themselves-is what is wrong with the world! I am not talking about the ones who have insecurities but can somehow find something that they like about themselves- that- they walk in the world with a form of confidence that they are able to navigate this world without fucking with people on “The Principal”- that they like themselves, the opposite is the cause of bullying.

Now hear me clearly, bullying is just not relegated to school campuses throughout the world, lest we not forget the “corporate “or  “the on the job bullying”- that goes on because, “muthafuckas” don’t like themselves or the proverbial, “She Thank She Cute!”-mindset-more like mental fuckin illness, the lowlife self-esteem of all the bitches who gave me hell, cause they asses wasn’t fortified at home. Now, I suffered some of the same injustices and abuses as many others but that Jhedi Mind Tricking Daddy of mine was like a drill sergeant in the Navy Seals, when it came to the social programing of, ” You better learn to like yourself, don’t come in here acting like nobody else, you betta learn to be your damself!” This indoctrination aint good in certain circles if you aint the complying kind of person.

Anyway, so I began to talk with another parent at my son’s school and she began to tell me how her daughter had been bullied at school for a long period of time. To make a long story short, she had to threaten the school administration with criminal and legal actions against the girl who had been bullying her daughter. Now juxtapose that to 2 rogue parents who entered the school and escaped administrative detection and went straight into their child’s class and confronted their child’s bully, I’m paraphrasing, “Keep fuckin wit mine and you gon git your ass beat!” Was it appropriate NO! But is was effective.

Had that been me, I would have called a meeting with school administration, explained my concerns, scheduled a later meeting with said bully’s parents, the teacher and the school administration. Once the final meeting took place, I would raise the issue of the said- bully being a victim of being bullied or abused himself in or out of the home, once all concerns and issues were addressed, whether through grittin my teeth or maybe outspokenly, depending on my state of mind that day, me and my Ex Husband, would tell the said bully parents, “yall can meet both of us outside in the parking lot and we can go fists to cuff” or we can go knuckle up and guard ya grill!……if they……… as parents…..couldn’t love they child enough to at least teach they chile to like one dam thing about themself that they aint got to be coming to school fucking wit other peoples’ kids……I’m just saying.

As a result, of the 2 factual scenarios, and my factual response to my hypothetical scernario…..October 20th through the 24th, 2014 is Anti-Bullying Week at my sons’ school.

We will discuss them grown ass ratbastards that come to work fucking wit everybody cuss they don’t like themselves!-Later